You know, I used to pride myself on how very clutter-free I was able to keep my home, even with three small children at home. As they have grown though, they are of course accumulating their own prized possessions.
My childrens' own passions and interests are reflected in what they collect, and I admittedly take great enjoyment in collecting their fine art works and finding new and creative ways to display them.
But let's face it. Clutter can be frustrating. You can work all day long and feel like you accomplished very little.
Aside from simply
being aggravating, it turns out that the stress which clutter promotes can ultimately lead
to a host of physical and mental health issues. Isn't that wild? It all has to do with how your
brain reacts to the clutter around you.
The Pain of Giving Up an Object
Researchers at Yale University in
Connecticut have discovered that 2 different pain-related areas of your brain
go crazy when you give up some item or object that you have developed a sense
of connection with. Those areas are the anterior cingulate cortex and insular
cortex (insula).
Your anterior cingulate cortex sends off
warning signals when your hot chocolate is too hot, or you experience some
other type of physical pain. Remarkably, when you give away or sacrifice a
possession or item to which you are attached, this part of your brain reacts in
the same way. When you are heavily invested emotionally or financially, the
feeling of loss is accelerated.
Your insula is related with pain, how you
empathize with others, and your awareness of your own emotional state. This
area of your brain also reacts as if you have received some emotional or
physical pain when you let go of a possession which has some type of personal
value.
The Mental Difficulty of Beating Clutter
This hardwired response to giving away
possessions is what makes defeating clutter so difficult for some. Usually, the
way your brain responds to giving up an object only triggers a physical pain
response if that object meant a lot to you. However, in some people it is
difficult to part with something as simple as an old newspaper.
How can you use this information to your
advantage if you are trying to declutter your life?
Understand that those painful emotions you
are experiencing when you are contemplating giving up some item or object are
natural. Give them their due. Experience them. Understand what they are,
trigger reactions which happen to everyone.
Then, instead of surrendering to them, take
control. If the best thing for you is to let go of a particular item, then do
so. Look at your situation logically and objectively.
Your brain is
automatically reacting to the thought of "losing" something. However,
that same brain craves order (the logical side, anyway) and discipline, which are two of the many rewards of
a uncluttered life.
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